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An Afterthought After Viewing The Love Song,"A Lamb-Skin Covered Wolf."
Posted On 02/08/2008 08:27:02 by wingchuntaiji

The following is my response to Theshadowboy607 after he posted the love song,"A Lamb-Skin Covered Wolf.":_

This is Karaoke-ready, and you can sing and dance along......

It was the first time I heard this guy, Dao Long(Knive Boy) sang his song.

The guy dreamed of courting this girl, and he made an analogy in the song that he would wear the skin of a wolf and think of the girl as the lamb in his mouth. He would spend his whole life waiting for her love.......

As a young person, don't buy into love thoughts like that! You 'll get trapped too easily into a situation without realizing it until many years later. Things change, people's feelings and moods change over time. It always starts being sweet at the beginning, but it can turn into a hell-like situation. Over 70% of the world's couples have been divorced at least once. That means that most of these love songs are B.S.!  Most lovers fail at the end and they keep smashing their heads to the wall!

An old saying that the bad guys get the girls is true!  The bad people take advantages of their vulnerable partners, and they won't get hurt. But, if you want to stay being a good guy,my advice is to search for a companion not basing on how good looking the person is. Choose the companion who  is internally beautiful in personality, who has high tolerance, love and care, unselfish, loyal, and sincere.

A good looking companion may be someone wearing a mask of an Angel. He or she may turn into a devil later!

Good looking people usually have a tendency of being egotistical, they change their heart more easily!

 

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From: wingchuntaiji
02/08/2008 20:11:47


tigerldy wrote:
That is because you are older and have lived the
harsh realities of Life. Being divorced tends to make one cynical about
finding Love. Think about when you were young and 'in love.' Sometimes
it resulted in heartache but I am sure there are memories that are like
little treasures to be stored away for safekeeping.

Some
people are very happy, although rare, after many years together. It is
possible, but BOTH sides must work at it. You can never expect the
other person to give you that happiness or true love. In a
relationship, happiness and love must first come from within and then it is meant to be shared. If a person cannot love and respect themselves, then how can they expect it from others?

I also agree, inner beauty is far more important!

 

Good insight! It is a pain that someone finds out that he or she married the wrong person only 30 years later. 



From: tigerldy
02/08/2008 15:11:49
That is because you are older and have lived the harsh realities of Life. Being divorced tends to make one cynical about finding Love. Think about when you were young and 'in love.' Sometimes it resulted in heartache but I am sure there are memories that are like little treasures to be stored away for safekeeping.

Some people are very happy, although rare, after many years together. It is possible, but BOTH sides must work at it. You can never expect the other person to give you that happiness or true love. In a relationship, happiness and love must first come from within and then it is meant to be shared. If a person cannot love and respect themselves, then how can they expect it from others?

I also agree, inner beauty is far more important!




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