"One of the most important aspects of achievement is training the eyes to see properly. Sight is an interesting phenomenon. We see things not as they are, but as we are. Our perception is shaped by past experiences, according to faith (what we believe) and consciousness."(by Dennis Kimbro)
In other words, seeing is not believing. Believing is seeing. We can only see in others what lies within ourselves. "You Must Become The Change You Wish To See" LOVE and CARE are simply four letter relationship words and without action they have no meaning.